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Guide to Female Domination.
Yes, You can enjoy BDSM

Learn the secrets of Lady Doms - be the mistress of your BDSM slave. 

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What's that you say?

When we hear the term Female Domination, or Femdom, the image that is most commonly conjured in our minds is of the Mistress and her slave, the Lady Dom. You know, the Whip Me, Beat Me, Make me feel Worthless routine where the Mistress dresses in black leather or lycra with lots of strategically cut out bits and pieces in her outfit so that her nipples and/or breasts, and butt are exposed. The standard 'can't do without' prop is a whip. Spiked high heeled stilettos are also a must have - ouch! Handcuffs and anklecuffs also come in handy to ensure that the slave knows his place.

There are also many other props that can be used by a Dominatrix. Shop around for gags, masks, nipple-clamps, paddles, harnesses, collars, and riding crops. You can find all of these and more at most adult shops. Many professional ones have their own dungeons where they can provide the ullimate sexual experience in use, abuse and humiliation. And don't submissive men just love it? Sure! While you may not want to spend a fortune decking yourself out with all the gear - and it's not necessary either - it is important to ensure that you have some of the essential props. If you have those, then you will find that it is much easier to slip into the role of Fem Domme Extraordinaire.



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Submissive Men

So, why is it that some men just adore being submissive and having their Mistress dictate to them what will and won't occur in a sexual session? Why do some men love their Mistress to punish them physically? Why do they like to be tortured? Well for starters, it's a big departure from the standard bedroom routine as we know it. Perhaps it's the excitement of the unknown - what WILL the Mistress demand today. It could also be the comfort of reaching back to a time when Mom made all the decisions and punished transgressions appropriately. Hell, it could be Catholic guilt even! The reasons probably don't matter all that much - what does matter is that he finds it exciting, cock hardening, and totally orgasmic. So use it honey!! Give him exactly what he wants. You're in control, he must obey you.

So what are the advantages of being a Lady Dom? Why does a Dominatrix have it better?

Once you take on the dominant role within a relationship then clearly the balance of power has shifted firmly to you. If you have a submissive man for a partner then you are in luck! Just imagine - no longer will you have to do any of the day to day chores - that's what you have your personal slave for. Also, you don't have to go to sleep horny, if you feel like sex then you can demand it. If you don't, you can easily refuse it - and have a legitimate excuse for being angry that you had been asked. The best part about engaging in BDSM is that it gives you an opportunity to explore your sexuality. If you are in a secure loving relationship then BDSM is even more enjoyable.

BDSM

Female Domination often involves one or more BDSM elements, that is Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. Although the elements may differ, what remains constant is that the woman is the keeper of the power and control over her partner or partners. Let me also make it clear here that both parties agree to the domination - if they didn't then we would be talking about an illegal activity rather than a preferred sexual fetish. You don't necessarily have to include ALL of the BDSM activities in order to be an effective Fem Domme, just one or two will do just fine!

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Lady Doms and their slaves follow RULES RULES RULES!

A large part of the whole Female Domination scenario involves discipline. As a Dominatrix you must make sure that your submissive follows the rules that you set. You must also enforce the rules - the stricter you are, the more successful your Female Domination Sessions will be. The overarching BDSM rule however, that you will hear often in the world of BDSM is ‘Safe, Sane, and Consensual’. Remember that rule over all others and your BDSM experience will be truly gratifying.


Some suggested Rules

The rules you set can be anything you want - but here's some basic ones that a lot of other Lady Doms use with great success!

  • You will wear what I dress you in - you will wear a dog collar and cuffs as mandatory. If I decide to let you wear something else as well then I will let you know. Do not ask me if you can put on anything else or I will have to punish you for being a very bad boy. When our session is over I will remove the dog collar and cuffs. Once I have done so, but only then, the session has ended.
  • You must never say 'No' to me. I don't like that at all. You must always try to do what I have commanded. If I don't think you can do it, then I will determine whether or not you should continue.
  • You must treat me with the respect that I deserve. When you speak to me you must address me as "Mistress ___". You must also ask me if you are allowed to communicate with me. For example, if you want to ask me a question you would say, "Mistress __, may I please ask you a question?" Remember, that if I say 'no' then you must accept that without query.
  • Your safe word is "______" . If you say this word then I will immediately stop what I am doing. We will talk about what is going on and how you are feeling about that. We will proceed from there. I will not be angry nor punish you for using the safe word.
  • You will not cum unless I give you permission to do so. If you try to do so without my permission you will be punished. Punishment is most likely to be a whipping. If you repeatedly misbehave then I will leave you as is - in bondage - until I feel that you have suffered enough.

Seek out other Lady Doms and BDSM clubs

There are many BDSM clubs and organisations around the world. If you are interested in exploring BDSM further then it is a good idea to join one of these. Many of them hold parties or work shops where new comers to BDSM can learn in a safe environment. You can also pick up tips from the experts in the field. Try it – you will probably be very surprised at just how many others share your interest in being a Lady Dom. You may also find the perfect slave.

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